At First, It's Sour. Now, It's Bitter.

Sebelum kita mala nak moha/nganok orang ketegal benda peribadi orang, cuba kita diamkan diri seketika. Cuba molah Sudoku ka, cuba nahan kentut ka, cuba nak cium buku lali ka . . nang sik akan kita mengeluarkan kata-kata yang memedihkan hati banyak pihak. Benar sik? Aku bukan nak menunjuk, tapi skill aku dlm Bengkel Teknik Pengurusan Kemarahan yang kurang dari sejam ya boleh juak aku share dgn kitak orang.

Embak hati sakit nang banyak benda paloi mudah difikir kita. Misal kata, kita call gerek kita tek, tapi nya sik nyaut. 3-4 kali kak ya sik juak nyaut. MOHA la kita tek nak? Bila moha, mcm-mcm jenis setan datang bertenggek di palak utak kita. Dan kita akan mikir gerek kita ya tek tgh berma dgn org lain, tgh berdating dgn ompuan kacak dikit dari kita... etc etc etc... Padahal situasi sebenar gerek kita ya tek mungkin tgh bergagan nak mencarik toilet, emergency nak cer berrrr... Mun kita benar nak cer berrr kdg-kdg orlak kaacc muka semerup ney sekalipun kita tandah ajak dolok. Kerana yang hendak di cer berrr kita ya lebih penting dr sifat luaran orlak kacc ya tek.

Jadi bila kita nemu gerek kita ya tek, soal siasat halus dolok. Jgn terus nak HENTAM dgn kata-kata kasar kotan kita tek MOHA dan PARANOID dgn apa yang dah disogok setan dlm pemikiran kita. Dengar dolok penjelasan orang. Jgn sekali-kali nyalah org lain. Kerana kdg-kdg org lain samada nya SIK ADA HAK keatas apa yg berlaku ATAU nya ADA AMANAH kpd seseorang yg nya respect, contoh SAYA. (Esssserreeeyyy!)

Contohnya.

Saya MOHA dgn Sofie tegal Sherry sik makey gaun dibeli saya kei Pertandingan Bintang Kecil 1988. Padahal sebelum ya Sherry ada madah, nya sikkan makey baju ya kerana sik kaccc... Lebih kurang gia lah! Jadi, Saya sepatutnya sik MENGHAMBURKAN PERTUDUHAN kepada Sofie, sebaliknya harus pergi bertanya kepada Sherry. "Oh deng, pahal sik makey baju dibeli kamek ya?" dgn tone sesedap ketupat palas (kenek dakek). Mun Sherry nyaut biadap, baru lah kita nait hantu juak. Mun Sherry ada merik alasan (tapi menjelaskan perkara sebenar dgn elok), Saya perlu menerima keputusan Sherry dgn seluar terbuka. Maaaakkkk!

Panjang jak metafora aku. Padahal benda kecik. Malas nak mikir sebab nya molah hati sakit, terguris dan kecewa. Tapi hati aku tetap tenteram, because I didn't have anything to lose.

Be silent, be still.. Be silent, be still..

JUST THINK ABOUT ANY OF THESE:

1. U got mad at the wrong person.

2. U claimed that people lied to you and the only "lie" I could think of was "you didn't know the news" just like the other "10 Top Favourite People In My Life".

3. U claimed that u're condemned for telling the truth but the only thing u were telling and kept saying was "people lied to u" to someone else. Never did once u told the truth to anybody especially to the ONE u're mad at because actually THERE'S NO TRUTH & LIE in the situation.

4. Who lied actually?

5. U rejected efforts of explanation.

6. U dragged others into this matter especially the one I trust & love.

7. After throwing a tantrum, u played pretend that nothing's happened when MANY hearts were hurt by ur angry words.

8. To whom were u mad at actually? Did u confront that person to know the story?

9. What's the issue again?

10. Alby Idang, Lloyd Huffman, Calvin Mikeng, Ketirah Hank, Cassida Empina, Kevin Jantan, Nurmi Yati, Rini Razak, Nursyidah Basari - all are my dearest ones. And THEY TOO, DO NOT KNOW.

Reflection: Why were u mad at the first place? Be honest to yourself first.