February 13, 2009

Make Your Blood Sings For Your Loved Ones

La Tua Cantante means Your Singer. Contrary to this, I bet most people in relationships find this hard to apply in well, of course their relationships.This has nothing to do to singing your heart out to your lover (err, it's one of the ways tough) even though ladies would appreciate the act very much. But it's rather on how you would keep him/her drawn to you, be addicted to you and sees nothing apart from you. Everybody is wishing for that, I'm sure.
In my humble opinion, because I suck in relationships, what a woman wants may not differ much from another woman's desire when talking about a dream guy. Although, some may list specific criteria or description, but I think the essence is pretty much the same.

Guys should be alarmed if their ladies keep asking for more, because something might be lacking. However, I think a guy will manage to be addictive if he is:

1. Passionate.
I can see one man that suits this word well. Cristiano Ronaldo. The reason is simple enough that he plays football like there's no tomorrow. Every game is like the first. He becomes inconsolable when the team lost, but fights back to get what should belong to him. The victory and the recognition. He pulls off the name Cry Baby or Super Diver and silences all the critics with his two left feet.
Adapt it to the real thing. The game is your lover. Imagine you have only 10 final minutes in the world to spend with her and let her know what you really feel/think in the relationship. If that doesn't ring a bell, I'm sure you have heard of Assurance or Security. In a relationship, that is.

2. Confident.
Never doubt what you believe in. Because if you do, people too will doubt you - she included. If you have a tiny doubt in you, handle it or at least keep the thought to yourself. To me, a guy is dang sexy when he has a nice pinch of confidence in him wherever he goes.

3. Funny.
Be moderate. Crack one or two but don't play foolish. It's okay sometimes if you make fun of yourself, because it amuses me when a guy lets himself loose with a girl, because when he's relaxed in a conversation, he can keep me the whole night!

4. Sensitive.
In a way that you are alert and sense something without even asking. When a girl is quite, sometimes our minds need to be private just for a while. Ask if you may, but make sure you do something to make her feel better. You better not ask her What's wrong, and when she tells you why, you would just put a fullstop to it. I don't know about you girls out there, but I'll be more pissed than the hell's gate.

5. Sincere and Honest.
Both must come along. Do the things that you really want to do with her, not just to please her or fear that she might not enjoy it.

6. Manly.
Be a man to her. There's never a better feeling to a woman when she's with a guy, but knowing that she's safe and she feels belonged to in a company of a guy. Be courteous, take charge, spontaneous and responsive to, let's say an instant attack from Mars!

7. Deep.
This one is very dificult to explain, but I loathe shallow-minded. I'm not into a short-term thingy and someone is deep to me means someone who is ready to commit or will be commited.

8. Treating her the way he wants her to treat him.
Come on guys! You say you don't expect much from us ladies, while we keep demanding. DO NOT LIE! What's up with the mumbling on our ways of spending money, obssession of things you don't understand... the list doesn't stop here...
Just do the balancing thing on your own.

9. Paying mutual respect for his other half.
Respect your lady and everything surround her. Do not be judgemental, and emotional. Leave that to girls ;p

10. Edward Cullen.
Enough said.

I hope you enjoy reading my piece of thoughts here on relationship for my Valentine's Day post. I'm not celebrating the day because I don't find it fancy at all. I don't know what day is. Hehehe.. But to me, every day is a lovey-dovey day if you know how to create one, don't you think?
Nevertheless, Happy St. Valentine's Day to all my bitches, girlfriends and friends (wow, did I just categorize my packs?). And of course, to the man who gives me hope that LOVE exists.
"I will always be your Little Devil creating chaos in your world. 1-4-3."

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